Too much singular fixation on "asymmetry" and "A2AD". "Thinktankland" tries to approach China strategy from the standpoint of where and how a technically and economically inferior opponent can leverage and exploit weaknesses to stay competitive. While there's nothing inherently faulty about this approach, I think they often develop myopia being too impressed with themselves about novel concepts, and forget to look at China's military development holistically. Specifically, I think what the US common defense analysis on China often misses is that: 1) Asymmetry is most useful for resource constrained adversaries, and China is no longer resource constrained. 2) For adversaries that aren't resource constrained strategic choices aren't diametrically exclusive, and asymmetric approaches that stem from pursuit of cost efficiency, by virtue of their cost effective nature, can be *layered* onto other approaches. 3) China is not the Soviet Union, even though many treat the two as substitutes of one another in their thinking.
The US defense community primarily tries to understand China's strategy for a potential China-US conflict through the standpoint of how China tries to deter the US, but China primarily thinks about a potential conflict with the US from the standpoint of how it can beat and supplant the US decisively in the entirety of the Pacific theater, which requires a lot more than beating US naval groups. There's a misunderstanding of doctrine and strategic objectives on the part of many US observers that skews and misleads their analysis. While maybe not an entirely fair characterization, one could maybe simplify the reason for this as China respecting their potential adversary a lot more than vice versa. China's answer to US CVGs probably shouldn't be symmetrical, but that doesn't mean that's all China should or is aiming to build for.
Yes, I agree with much of this, although one part I don't fully agree with is the underlined part.
I think the two types of thought are not necessarily incompatible -- i.e.: for China to seek to attain its own military capabilities as one of being able to beat and supplant the US in the pacific and aiming to achieve those capabilities, can and should be seen as a fundamental form of deterrence in of itself.
I do agree however, that much of the US defense community's analyses of China's goal for deterrence/strategic capabilities are constrained by other biases which you've described, such as always viewing Chinese capabilities in a purely asymmetrical manner, with assumptions of broad technological inferiority which may no longer be the case in many domains, and a general lack of "respect" or an insufficient honouring of the threat so to speak, in a more cultural and psychosocial way which then may lead to underestimates of the kind of technological capabilities that China may seek to field as well as underestimating the ambition and creativity of China's military on a strategic level as well.
The J-20 is an excellent case of this, where much "professional" commentary about J-20 seems almost head-in-sand blind to even the possibility that J-20 may have been designed with a logical but also "ambitious" purpose like air superiority, as that would threaten the much vaunted exclusivity of the aircraft F-22 and result in some uncomfortable insinuations about what the state of advancement of China's military aviation industry (but also military industry at large) is really at, not to mention what the ambition and scale of China's overall military strategy may actually be.
I can sort of understand how that kind of perspective and blindness comes about, because after all only two decades or so ago such a view would've been quite accurate to sum up China's immediate goals for that period. But things have changed and it's no longer the 90s, and if defense commentators, thinktanks and defense media had paid proper attention to the shifting winds in the last decade or so like one would think they are paid to do, then that perspective might have been rectified quite a while ago.