It's actually insane for people to be having these conversations. 1CP was absolutely insane. It caused a lot of heartbreak for people having to have their kids aborted at any stage in their pregnancy (even when viable preterm)! And this was caused by preventing people from having a second kid - an effect that is a lot less significant than forcing women to have kids.
Humans have one of the worst deliveries out of any mammals - there is a reason why babies are so helpless, and why maternal mortality was so high before modern medicine, and why there are so many complications that arise from childbirth. For people to be saying you need to force women to have kids and then take care of them for 18 years is disgusting.
There are a lot of Han Chauvinists/misogynists here that really don't understand that the CPC is still a communist party, and as such is committed to women's liberation. Don't get me wrong - there are still contradictions both from a traditional culture side (aka rich people having mistresses and also from the spoiling of single daughters (aka my ex), but the general direction they are moving in is still correct.
I think the best solutions would be to remove the negative externalities that result from having kids in modern society. I think the recent adjustments by the government are good, such as removing preschool fees from the last year of preschool, and trialing of subsidies for kids is also very welcome. This is the same effect as a tax on child-free couples and individuals, but a lot more distributed, in the same way that subsidies are usually better than tariffs. A slow population decrease should be targeted, around 1.6-1.8 TFR.