I think that tacoburger was talking about how an engine like Merlin has stayed in active development for quite some time (1A,B,C,D,FT etc) while its LV was operational.
The analog may not be perfect but it is IMO appropriate if the bench mark is about the final technical achievement of the design.
Let's say Merlin FT reached the full potential of the design as the name Full Thrust suggested. It is equal to RS-25's spec 190 ton force sea level. For SpaceX, they don't need to wait for FT to go to the market, they can use the early variant A,B,C,D already to make money but with a lower total payload capacity of Falcon 9. For RS-25 it is not possible to use early low thrust variants to make business, because the only business they have is the contract of the shuttle that demand the 190t (like FT).
So Falcon 9 is operational much "earlier" compared to the shuttle in multiple steps, it gives the impression of continious improvement. In my analog, Merlin FT and RS-25's 190t are the 100 dollar, SpaceX delivered 100 dollar in five 20 dollar bills over many years, while RS-25 delivered one 100 dollar bills at once.
But if the bench mark is about how early one can get some money, then SpaceX is ahead. It is all about business environment, not about technical prowess. SpaceX wouldn't be able to squeeze anything more out of RS-25, just like it won't be able to further squeeze Merlin FT, both have reached their technical limit.
Merlin stayed in active development is because before FT it is essentially making money out of an alpha, beta version of SW. Nothing wrong with it, but it should not be mistaken with technical achievement or approach that others should emulate.
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Use YF-100 as example, if CASC operate commercial launches, it could have pushed YF-100 in the launch market early on before it reaches 120t, then improve its thrust to 120t in later variant, then further to 130t as of today. Then we would be seeing the same thing in CASC. Remember Falcon 9 had lots of explosions earlier, SpaceX didn't wait for reliability before they take in launch orders. SpaceX let the insurance company to pay for the reliability. One can start something operational in 80% reliability and reach 95%, or start from 95%. The word operational isn't everything. However, CASC will not take that kind of risk considering their mission demands.