Calling the starship launch a failure is too simplistic and calling it a success would also be untrue
Its a success just being able to lift off and hitting max q. These are important milestones for their testing plans.
And you also saw the acrobatics, doing 6 spins lol, of the starship in the end, right? That's also going to be a goldmine of data on how the rocket performed (flight control software) and withstood extreme aerodynamic forces.
Given that this was their
first test with a fully assembled Starship rocket, that it even lifted off from the launch pad is a success by itself. From my POV, this was a successful test for all intends and purposes.
SpaceX is doing R&D on its programs with a test fast, fail fast mentality. They are not national space agencies where they spend 10 years on the drawing room, and then they have a perfect test launch. Instead, they prefer doing faster iterations on their R&D activities with more experimental tests.
That's a different philosophy (and arguably more superior if we take into account SpaceX's record)
I will be more blunt than you, people laughing at this Starship test, and dismissing it as a disaster or a massive failure, are coping hard.