I quote my post
I would add that Xi Jinping in terms of foreign policy is much more aggressive than his predecessors.
If we could afford this luxury before, when the United States was occupied in the Middle East or against Russia, today with the new cold war approaching (no matter the US president, the consensus is bipartisan ) China will need allies, we can't win on several fronts at the same time
Saying the same thing over and over again quoting yourself doesn't make your argument more valid, though. How are you going to "win more allies?" You want to hold the status quo, but they want to advance on you if you are not advancing on them, so what do you do? Give away your interests? Even if China is willing to do that, (which it's not) what do you do when they take what you give and then these countries ask for continuous tribute from China in order to maintain them as "allies?"
China already shows quite a lot of restraint (likely as much as you said it should) and is happy to maintain a status quo if the other side doesn't make it apparent that they would take advantage of the opportunity. In the Galwan Incident, it would be easy for a PLA general to tell India that its fighters are pathetic and died running away, unable to inflict any casualties on the PLA, and if they want to escalate, it will end with China taking everything from them north of Nepal and east of Bangladesh. Instead, China kindly tells them that it will not compare casualties and wishes to meet India halfway. I cannot imagine a more forgiving approach.
Here, I quote myself too, which was an an unanswered response to your self-quote:
"What do you do when you give these countries what they want, they smell blood, then come ask for more and more, threatening poor relations whenever you stop giving? Is this the behavior of a rising power to be blackmailed into concessions by small countries to temporarily curry favor? Your own post doesn't even agree with itself. How do you "not give up our demands" while also "stop making claims in the SCS/Diaoyu?"
China need a new geopolitical Doctrine ?