As a US Citizen living for the last 2.5 years in Thailand as well as being married to a Cambodian, I am privy to info from both sides of the border.
The Thais need to look way back into their history - if in fact they do this they will know that Cambodia - in the 1300 took in the majority of southeast Asia. The Khmer's were extremely industrious and established a established a strong system of mercantilism and commercial monopolies that would become a pattern for empires in the region.
In fact the Cambodian's, up until the war in Vietnam, were far better off than the Thais. Thailand does not want to recognize that the World Court awarded the temples to Cambodia. They also do not remember how at the end of the Khmer Rouge days, when hundreds of former Khmer Rouge fighters were crossing the border and being harbored by Thailand - individuals that had murdered thousands of innocents, including babies that they swung by their feet into trees. They forget how thousands of Cambodian refuges fled across the border during the Vietnamese occupation only to be driven back years later down steep hillsides and minefields - they don't remember how the Thai military shot men women and children that would not leave.
As far as the military goes - in my opinion, and this comes from retiring after 30 years in the Marine Corps as a fighter pilot -they are "Toy Soldiers". They are great at parading around in their uniforms, shooting innocents, and utilizing superior firepower against a force not as well equipped, but a force that in all out jungle warfare would make short work of them.
As far as their ability as fighter jocks, any US fighter pilot would make short work of them. In other words, it would be "Crash and Burn" in a matter of seconds after initial engagement. The Thais also have to remember that if it had not been for the USA during, and even after Vietnam, Thailand would still be a major rice paddy.
Anyone that tours or spends any time in Cambodia will find the people to be far friendlier than the Thais, more open to foreigners, the majority of them living in the cities speak English, and many speak French and Thai as well - they have to in order to get a job, unlike Thailand where they do not want to speak English.
As well foreigners can buy property outright as well as a business...not so in T'land.
And last but not least, Thailand is still using its politics to decide what company will get the 3G network when Cambodia already has it.
Nuff said.