@SteelBird proud of you bro, you're a great father , me a half failure, when ask my children always answer they're Hua qiao, instead of Chinese Filipino, they always answer FIlipino Chinese or CHINOY. They learn to love their adopted country while maintaining their Chinese character and value and for this I think I fulfilled my promise to my father , " to be a contributor to my adopted country and maintain the tradition and values of being a Chinese".Brother, I have a daughter with my ex-wife and while she was about 5 years old I used to brought her to my home every weekend. One day she asked me "Dad, why mom always call me kon kon, what does kon mean?". I answered her "kon means baby in Khmer language, are you Khmer?". You know how she answered me? She spoke to me in mandarin "不是,我是中国人!" (No, I'm Chinese).