The moment your country sucked up to NATO, she became a tool in the US hard power arsenal. Did you really think you can enjoy the benefits of an alliance and only be viewed as a part of that alliance when it's convenient for you? Once you're in, you're in 24/7 and the entire alliance will be held accountable for the actions of any one member. If you don't want to take any sides then distance yourself from the alliance whose sole purpose is to screw with anyone the US doesn't like."yours"? My country is not sending any warships to the Chinese coast.
I dont take any side in this, but nothing is help by this.