Damn.
So if a dog bites you what would you do? Cower in fear and try to appease him and reach a compromise with the dog? No of course not, you have to stand your ground and make the dog your b**** (at least in your own territory) and make him understand you are the boss here or else the dog will make you his b**** inside your own territory.
You are using capability as an excuse to why China should just turn the other cheek to the US. when even a far much smaller country (Russia) invaded Ukraine (an actual country, not a province) yet the US still didn't dare to send it's military directly against Russia and instead decided to make do with weapons shipments and sanctions. And those sanctions are devastating western economies, if they repeat those sanctions against China then that would be the end of western economies.
The US didn't corner any one but itself, the US is at it's weakest point since more than a decade now, due to faulty covid policy plus the Russia sanctions, their actions are out of a position of weakness not that of strength.
If you bow to this kind of a person:
Then imagine just how much would that embolden the upcoming Trump administration.
Let's hope the leadership in Beijing doesn't share your opinion.