So I guess the important unknown is this: did the guys at RCpower try to approximate a reasonable T/W ratio with their J-20 model? I know they did with their F-22.
Jeff raised some very good points that the model doesn't begin to approximate weight distributions, stresses, etc. of the real thing. It's therefore not valid to extrapolate the performance of J-20 based on an RC model.
That said, the comparisons made in the videos are between the RC model of J-20 and RC model of F-22, the Eurofighter, the F-18, etc. I believe these comparisons of RC models have more validity, but how much they translate into differences in the performance of their real-life counterparts is another matter.
It's certainly all very interesting.
The most important aspect of the R/C model is that it is gyro-stabilized, that's what enables the slow-speed controllability of the model, it is Not aerodynamically stabilized by air-flow over the control surfaces or the wing, but it is a kool toy just like the little helicopters that every one enjoys flying, but it is the Gyro, not the canards that enable the R/C model.....