Some basic rules in stealth vs stealth engagements:
1) Stealth planes are basically stealth in long distance (>100km), but unstealth in short distance (~10km).
2) When stealth fighters open their own radar, it will expose themselves.
3) So stealth fighters are always deployed with AEW&C planes hundreds km behind. Stealth fighters are in penetration mode, aka shutdown their own radar/lens, use AEW&C planes' radar/datalink as their INT source & guidance.
4) In peace time, stealth planes will open their reflectors when they're ready to be seen. When they don't want to be seen, they close their reflectors, and keep in penetration mode. In a word, they close reflectors in long distance, and open them in short distance w.r.t. enemy sensors (peace time).
US F-35s deployed in Japan regularly fly around East China Sea, to test China's air perimeter defense. In this case, China must send their stealth fighters, aka J-20, to intercept them. If China doesn't come, US will think their F-35 haven't been detected by China and provoke more. If China sends unstealth fighters like J-16/10 or Su-35, it's much inferior and can't teach US a lesson. This interception incident in 2022 is very like a combat scenario.
So, J-20 vs F-35 is a must. Both sides were supported with AEW&C planes. Both closed their reflectors at first.
First, China used its EW ground/air radars detected F-35s' possible intrusion & approximate location, and inform J-20 to intercept. Then, multiple J-20 took off, kept silent mode, until flew to a relatively short distance with F-35, suddenly opened their lens, which shocked US F-35 and AEW&C a lot. US finally detected J-20, but in a relatively close range, it's too late if it's in a war. That's why USAF generals keep praising J-20 & KJ-500 "professional".
Lens/Reflectors can be opened or closed according to specific scenario, and the two modes can be switched in a sec. But you won't open it in long distance, otherwise it's a waste for a stealth plane (keep it close can significantly squeeze enemy's reaction time/range). With AEW&C in back and RWR in stealth planes themselves, you can always know when to open lens (when you're approaching controversial areas).
When someone says he detects a stealth plane, it maybe useful, but mostly not, unless he can intercept it. Houthis once claim they detected a B-2, but was it helpful?