@ Norfolk and Adeptius:
I think you are both correct on the issue of heavy IFVs/APCs. We have seen time and again that lighter IFVs fail. The First Chechen War is an excellent example, as is the Afghan-Soviet War, and to a lesser extent the Iraq War and the recent Israeli invasion of Lebanon. The modern threat enviroment is simply too full of weapons that can destroy light infantry vehicles. RPGs, ATGMS, large IEDs and mines are simply far too easy to come by for these vehicles to be very practical in most modern war enviroments.
Of course the other side of this coin is that heavy vehicles have a lot of problems too. I'm sure that you completely understand what those are but I'll just say that fuel and logistics is the biggest one.
I personally think that losses of light wheeled IFVs are blown completely out of proportion. Losses in conflicts you mentioned have more to do with almost criminal negligence and stupidity in tactical usage of those vehicles rather then with shortcomings of those vehicles…
The first Chechen war is great example of that; both tracked BMPs and wheeled BTRs were used as mobile bunkers with infantry detachments that were afraid to leave false safety of those vehicles making the job for Chechen fighters even more easy...
On other hand IDF's little fiasco in Lebanon was perfect example what happens when you train your troops to serve as security detachments in Palestinian areas, use tactics developed for CT operations and choose to forget all experience you accumulated last time you were fighting against that particular enemy... Not to mention stupid belief that air force can win war by itself...
Heavy IFV are product of Israeli needs to protect troops as much as possible (since potential enemy's have much larger manpower available) and Israeli experience in urban CT operations in Palestinian areas. They are tailored to fit Israeli tactics in this areas and while they are great products that doesn't make them a perfect choice for every army that conducts similar operations...
They are slower, noisier and less mobile and while they are able to survive heavier punches they will still be destroyed by IED with enough explosives..
Besides threats you mentioned are not new and can be countered by use of proper tactics... Currant reports by the US troops seams to show that they are more then happy with Stryker and it seams that tactics developed for Stryker actually work really well...