I see someone else did a lot of the writing for me today... I'll just have to add on then.
Many countries in stalemate managed to conquer territories despite no conclusive victory.
Exemples: Taiwan, US invasion of Iraq, South Korea, Kosovo, hundreds of European wars.
Exchanging territories is normal in wars but is not a guarantee of victory. Having territory is a necessary condition, but not sufficient to guarantee a decisive victory.
Yes, you will be defeated if you cannot defeat your enemy.
If you declare a war on drugs or a war on terrorism and fail to exterminate drug traffickers and terrorists, even within your own territory or abroad, you lose the war. Implies continuing to suffer losses.
Just like Mexico, Brazil and the USA are losing the war on drugs.
But there is the possibility of stalemate, when neither side wins and they reach an agreement.
The Yakuza in Japan and the mafia in Italy are examples of stalemate in the war on drugs.
If Putin says that Ukraine is now a Nazi state and promises to de-zanify Ukraine, if he doesn't de-zanify Ukraine he will lose.
But it will be a stalemate if Putin manages to at least seize most of Ukraine and concessions from Zelensky. Both sides will concede and make a deal, so neither will be the ultimate winner.
As I said above, if both Zelesnsky and Putin are conceding their initial demands in the negotiations, neither is a winner. Stalemate.
Both can declare victory or defeat, but neither has achieved a universally recognized victory. So this is the typical inconclusive war.
It seems your thinking is very ridged. It's just the stated goals, exactly that, nothing more, total honesty (no hiding more sinister goals) and it's either total victory, total defeat, or stalemate. You think it's a loss to let a drug leader escape even if you annexed his country. If you consider that a defeat, you're debating in a different language than anyone else. We'd all like to take the land; after that, we've forgotten about the escaped drug lord/warlord, terrorist or whatever the hell was cus it doesn't matter anymore compared the magnanimity of territorial expansion!
You also don't understand that the splitting of an outcome is on a spectrum in terms of whom it favors, rather than a trinomial result. But actually, war is almost never black and white in terms of resolution. Victory is sold by the gram, not by half or one.
A stalemate is an inconclusive outcome in which both sides claim partial victory or nothing at all.
In the Chinese Civil War, the PRC's victory was nearly universally accepted.
This is funny, though. These 2 lines, one written above other contradict. In the Chinese Civil War, neither side got all of their objectives or we would not have a separately governed Taiwan today. Both Mao and Chiang wanted control of all Chinese territories; Mao to the lion's share and Chiang held onto a sliver. By your definition, that is partial on both sides and it would be a stalemate, but then you acknowledge that it was a PRC victory.
What you say has no evidence.
The evidence and logic is in the text you just read.
You are just underestimating your enemy. This is a gross error.
Europeans have shown nothing that deserves more credit. They dare do nothing unless led by others or the pack. You, one the other hand, make the gross error of underestimating Russia, a country that is historically known for war-time stamina. You think Russia's economy won't hold much longer or that he has a Trump timeline for negotiation but actually, the Russia economy is adapting and accelerating to a new norm and Russia's military is just getting warmed up. Trump may want this to end because he wants to focus on China, but Putin's having a great time so if you wanna cash him out early, you're gonna have to give him an incentive that's way better than just whatever chips he has in his hand at that time.
However, there is actually evidence in history that the Western mentality can overcome the Russian/Chinese mentality.
Let's see the examples. Keep in mind I said after they created the EU and NATO, they resigned themselves to pack rat mentality so ancient history isn't gonna do.
Who guarantees that a new revolution will not make Russia unstable again?
Or who guarantees that a new alliance of Western countries will not partition China again?
What? Are you just making random stuff up? Like "who guarantees that the poor won't eat the rich in the West by next year? Who guarantees aliens won't invade and unite the human race? Who guarantees that the earth won't explode tomorrow?" ...Like this?