...but the J-20 has a much longer midchord length than the Flanker, which is also part of the equation? The point is the J-20 has much greater wing area than the Flanker. You made a verifiable claim, that the J-20's wing area was smaller than the Flankers, and you were wrong (because you tried to use subjective judgements rather than make objective measurements).You supposed to know the equation includes wing span, oh! wing span guess what Flanker has longer wing span haha do you know why F-14 has more lift when its wings are less swept? bigger span, one thing is exposed area and another is reference area, do you know what is the reference area of a helo?
The F-14 gets more lift when it's wings are less swept because all else held equal lift coefficient is greater for wings that are less swept with a shorter midchord length. This is not because of wider span though! Yes, it does have something to do with how the airstream interacts with a wing that has a shorter midchord length, but we account for that through experimentally determined lift coefficients because what determines a wing's lifting (and drag) properties is much more than the length of its midchord or its wing sweep! I'm glad you suddenly acknowledge that lift coefficients do matter! That still doesn't mean the Flanker has more wing area though. Whether the Flanker's less swept shorter midchord length wings have a better lift coefficient is a completely unrelated point from whether the Flanker has more wing area than the J-20. Try again. Even if the Flanker did have a wing with better lift coefficient though, the J-20's wings would still have a lot more area for lifting forces to act on, which is why we even factor in wing area in the first place. Either way we wouldn't know which wing has a superior lift/drag curve just by eyeballing, because what determines those coefficients is more than just one or two of a multifactor variable!
Also, a lower swept wing isn't always necessarily superior for a fighter. The tradeoff to less sweep is also greater drag, so you may not come out with a favorable lift to drag ratio. There's a reason why variable sweep designs have been retired for deltas with vortex generators and nearly all 4.5+ designs opted for delta/trapezoidal wings. Nor is wing sweep the only factor to lift coefficient, and the J-20's wing does not fit an all else held equal condition with either the Flanker's or the F-14's, so simply pointing at their sweeps won't tell you how their lift and drag coefficients compare to one another with their different combination of wing sweeps, chords, and other potential lift enhancers.