Haters love to argue J-20's being longer means massive extra weight, as if the extra section is filled entirely of concrete or something.
I don't necessarily think people are haters. They have doubts, which are understandable. China has not been at the forefront of fighter jet design and manufacturing. It is hard to judge China's ability by past experience.
On the other hand, myself had been involved in some different projects, although not related to military, I know both electronics and manufacturing went through many great transformations, globally and especially in China, in the past 15 years. I know today is so much different than 1980s when F-22 was designed.
My suspicion is most people overestimated F-22's capability, they are the victims of propaganda. If J-20 has superior capabilities, we will gradually learn. For now most people can only speculate. You can't show how great the supersonic performance is in an airshow, you will blowout everybody's eardrums