Assuming that J-16D seems "Western" and must be similar to the EA-18G is by itself a leap of faith and an unproven assumption.
You keep making Western analogs when the Chinese themselves consistently break that for their convenience and 'Chinese characteristics'.
Fact is, Chinese use of avionics, radars, ESM and ECM is not as Western as you think. For example, if the 052D looks like an Arleigh Burke would you assume its components work similarly to a Burke? There are many components in the 052D that do not work like on the Burke and has no analog on the Burke. There are also components on the Burke that has no analog on the 052D. ZTZ-99 has a turret that looks like a Leopard II and yet it lacks a bustle loader and uses a carousel autoloader like a T-72.
If the aircraft is a dedicated tactical jammer then why can't you believe it should not be capable of cross eye jamming for its own defense? After all the aircraft is a jammer. After all, the Flanker family has relied on cross eye jamming for its own self defense. Why do you think that an EW bent fighter should not have cross eye jamming for its own defense? Do you think air superiority is so guaranteed that these planes do not need any self defense at all? I do not believe that the J-16D is as "dedicated" as you think, and the EA-18G isn't as dedicated either as you think if it is still armed with AIM-120C.
Never mind that I already explained to you that the pod tips would not interfere with the ESM/ELINT function at all. Each pod tip is about the right size that you would expect to be the size of an active radar seeker for an AAM, which has its own functioning radar that can lock into an enemy aircraft. For that matter, a jammer of this size is perfectly sized to spoof an active radar seeker of an AAM or SAM. Spoofers do not overwhelm the target with sheer interference, they instead send a spoof signal that mimics the radar's echo to insert false information about the range and the velocity of the intended target. They do not need to be more powerful than the target radar, the spoofing signal merely needs to have the same amplitude as the true echo signal. I already explained to you that the Khibini pod---used on offensive aircraft like the Su-34----works as an ESM to locate and provide target information for ARMs like the Kh-31 (YJ-91) against radar sites, and yet it is also capable of self defense jamming.
Continuing here.
How is it a leap of faith to suggest that J-16D is an equivalent to EA-18G?
We already have multiple examples of regular PLA fighter and strike aircraft equipped with ECM pods that serve multiple roles -- J-10s, JH-7/As, J-11B, J-16, have all carried jamming pods that by their own nature, are both active and passive to serve the role of being self defense jamming or having a tactical jammer role embedded fully within the pod itself.
Everything you described is perfectly reasonable if J-16D was not a dedicated tactical jammer, and if it was just a normal fighter aircraft.
However, J-16D is the first PLA fighter aircraft that is a variant with modifications for EW/ECM rather than merely being equipped with pods after the fact.
You yourself have listed the various modifications, ranging from the removal of its gun and IRST, additional airframe antennae, altered radome/nose, and the wingtip pods. These are all modifications entirely consistent with an aircraft intended to be a dedicated tactical jammer, rather than being a fighter merely equipped with a self defense jamming pods or tactical jamming pods where the entire EW/ECM capability (passive and active) has to be contained within a single pod.
For a tactical jammer, the entire aircraft is structurally modified to enhance its EW/ECM role, by enhancing both its passive and active capabilities.
Enhancing its passive capabilities is by virtue of the addition of dedicated antennae and mission computers to provide the aircraft with a much enhanced ELINT/ESM capability.
Enhancing its active capabilities, is usually by providing the aircraft with dedicated large active jamming pods designed to operate in concert with the aircraft's passive ELINT/ESM capability, with the pods usually able to be swapped in and out, modified, and upgraded as new designs enter service (though aircraft like EF-111 also exist).
So -- you ask me, why do I think if an aircraft is a dedicated tactical jammer, why shouldn't it be capable of cross eye jamming for its own defense?
Well, I never said it couldn't be. What I said was that the wingtip pods on J-16D would make the most sense to be for the passive ESM/ELINT role -- because for dedicated tactical jammers, the strength of the aircraft is its innate/baseline potent passive ESM/ELINT capability, while the active jamming capability is to be interchanged between pods depending on the specific mission.
However, for every mission you will require a potent ESM/ELINT capability, which is why the ESM/ELINT subsystems are part of the aircraft's airframe and relatively difficult to remove.
I'm not sure why you are continuously talking about the design of the J-16D's wingtip pod.
The ALQ-218 pod on the EA-18G has all of the same features you've described as J-16D's wingtip pods, yet it is a dedicated ESM/ELINT system, lacking an active jamming capability.
Sure, the design of J-16D's wingtip pods theoretically could possess active and passive functions -- but ALQ-218 demonstrates that J-16D's pod could be purely passive as well.
As for cross eye jamming -- sure, perhaps J-16D could be equipped with smaller active jamming pods on the outboard underwing stations for cross eye jamming, but I expect J-16D to carry large jamming pods (both in service, and under development) as well for its primary mission set. The strength of a tactical jammer is to be equipped with different active pods for different missions, and if for some reason, a particular mission set required the J-16D to possess a self defense jamming role that couldn't be operationally met by its tactical jamming capabilities, then okay, why not.
BUT, if what you said was true, you would be undermining the aircraft's innate ESM/ELINT capabilities to seek to provide an inherent self defense jamming capability.
Whereas for a tactical jammer, possessing a much more potent innate ESM/ELINT capability, while being able to swap out and add active jamming pods would make far more sense, and result in a superior and more flexible EW aircraft.
As for AIM-120 on EA-18Gs -- yes, the EA-18G remains a dedicated tactical jammer.
I use the term "dedicated tactical jammer" to differentiate from the other aircraft you listed, like Flankers, which were "fighter aircraft with jamming capabilities provided by pods".
There is a difference between being a tactical jammer structurally developed and built for the role that possesses some multirole capabilities by virtue of payload, versus a fighter aircraft that possesses some jamming capabilities by virtue of payload.
The EA-18G and J-16D fulfill the former.
Other fighter aircraft fulfill the latter.