hmm, now you are trying to shift the goal post, that is not honest of you. Did I saying anything refuting these things that you are trying to stuff into the conversation? Did I even mention anything related to these "new" points of yours?
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You are the one ignoring the strategic implications of reusability and giving way too much value just because someone is using LOX/LH2.
I made it perfectly clear that LOX/LH2 isn't even the highest Isp solution you can use. Which you claimed as if it was the only metric of merit in a rocket. Which it isn't. In the first stage of a rocket the metric of merit is high thrust to weight ratio to reduce gravity losses. For that you need high thrust to weight engines, low dry mass fraction of the rocket, dense fuel. Which liquid hydrogen is not. Only once you escape the confines of Earth's atmosphere does high Isp become more relevant.
The fact is, it would have been easier, not harder, for SpaceX to develop a LOX/LH2 engine with similar technology level than LOX/LCH4. The combustion is a lot cleaner and you don't need as many treatments and advanced alloys in the engine for it to work. But it would come at the cost of heavy fuel tanks. You would need much larger tanks because of its low density and you would need insulation on the tanks to keep the liquid hydrogen, which is deeply cryogenic unlike LOX or LCH4, below boiling temperature. Which would reduce useful payload for the same size rocket.
LOX/LH2 is nice to have in 2nd stages but many successful launcher rockets in the past and today don't use it anywhere at all. Soyuz is arguably the most successful rocket launcher in history and it does not use it. Neither does Proton. Neither does Falcon 9. I know ONE exactly ONE rocket which uses LOX/LH2 in the first stage and that is the USA Delta IV Heavy rocket. It is horrendously expensive and is being phased out from usage. To reduce the dry mass fraction Boeing uses isogrid tank construction which requires time consuming machining of tanks. Each tank, and it has three, is more expensive to manufacture than all of a Falcon Heavy's tanks. All other LOX/LH2 rocket designs at best use parallel staging with most of the thrust either coming from solid side boosters like Ariane 5/H-IIA/Shuttle or use LOX/Kerosene side boosters like Energia/Long March 5 thus not being true LOX/LH2 first stages. In a lot of cases in these rockets, like the Ariane 5, the LOX/LH2 rocket engine it has (Vulcain) can't even liftoff the weight of itself and the center fuel tanks. So it can't even liftoff without side boosters.
Thankfully China itself, unlike you it seems, sees the value of reusability and there are several private efforts attempting this and even the state sponsored launcher has decided to change its launch rocket plans.