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Those are all good and helpful but one certainly cannot say that it is not cultural. Chinese parents are obsessed with number 1. If their neighbors' kids are outperforming theirs, they will drive that kid up against the wall day in and day out until he out-achieves them. He could be a phenomenal kid with high grades and excellent prospects but if his peers are higher achievers in a traditional academic sense, he's not going to hear the end of it until he beats them. (Little kids nag their parents for the best toys to show off to their friends and parents nag their kids for results to show off to their friends LOL. I had a kid live upstairs from me when I was growing up and I hated his effing guts even though we never spoke because my parents kept telling me how he was more obedient and had higher grades. I eventually "beat" him after we moved away cus I don't think he went to grad school, at least not at a PhD level and that's when I never heard my parents mention him again.) No matter how many resources you pour into erecting excellent academic institutions, there are still only going to be 10 in the top 10, and the fight to get into them is going to be as vicious as always. I have a feeling that this cultural obsession with competition is good in many ways for China's development, BUT only if paired with a non-corrupt educational system. When everyone makes their kids study on Saturday to get ahead, that's fine. But when everyone's competing on how expensive the gifts are that they can send to the teacher to curry favor for their little brat, that's a huge problem and that translates into financial strain making having more kids unaffordable.
Those are all good and helpful but one certainly cannot say that it is not cultural. Chinese parents are obsessed with number 1. If their neighbors' kids are outperforming theirs, they will drive that kid up against the wall day in and day out until he out-achieves them. He could be a phenomenal kid with high grades and excellent prospects but if his peers are higher achievers in a traditional academic sense, he's not going to hear the end of it until he beats them. (Little kids nag their parents for the best toys to show off to their friends and parents nag their kids for results to show off to their friends LOL. I had a kid live upstairs from me when I was growing up and I hated his effing guts even though we never spoke because my parents kept telling me how he was more obedient and had higher grades. I eventually "beat" him after we moved away cus I don't think he went to grad school, at least not at a PhD level and that's when I never heard my parents mention him again.) No matter how many resources you pour into erecting excellent academic institutions, there are still only going to be 10 in the top 10, and the fight to get into them is going to be as vicious as always. I have a feeling that this cultural obsession with competition is good in many ways for China's development, BUT only if paired with a non-corrupt educational system. When everyone makes their kids study on Saturday to get ahead, that's fine. But when everyone's competing on how expensive the gifts are that they can send to the teacher to curry favor for their little brat, that's a huge problem and that translates into financial strain making having more kids unaffordable.
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