manqiangrexue
Brigadier
LOL Chinese elderly can do that, often with open arms except for possible spousal unhappiness, which is usually repressed due to the extreme respect that we typically carry for our parents and parents in law. In America, it's light humor and assumed that we have poor relations with our parents in law, mother-in-law specifically, for some reason. In China, it's considered a huge red flag to someone's character to not offer the best we have to our parents and parents-in-law.Americans can also liquidate their real estate to use for retirement, or live with their children.
If an American tried that, he's likely to end up with a rent and food bill every month, which can't pay or he'd be still living independently. Or just be flat out refused and on the street. "Hey dad, remember how you told me all my bills were mine to pay after 18 and how granny and gramps both got put in a hospice when they wanted to move in with us? Your turn now."
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