Xinjiang is like Tibet sanctions, really just a distraction. Same with Lithuania-Taiwan antics, just a distraction.
EV tariffs are not unexpected, most countries impose high tariffs and expect locally made production of automobiles, which is the remaining high value manufacturing area in Europe asides from commercial planes.
The only major friction is Dutch towing the line of US export controls, and that mostly has to do with de minimis rule where US can cut off underlying tech. US basically controls their tech export policy.
Yes VDL yapps a lot about de-risking and balance, but she lacks formal power of a real President and can easily be bypassed to individual member states.
So overall, despite VDL yapping, EU isn't really that big of hostile player, that's why China still engages individual member countries to bypass VDL, and develop relationships with Germany and France directly, where the power truly resides.
And lastly, US has declared a trade war with EU, this is one of lifetime chance to take advantage of a blunder and collapse of US prestige. Divide and conquer requires deft surgical precision, not blunt wielding instruments.