Cultural clash. Western culture is to never be honest, puff out your chest, fake it 'till you make it, always attempt to approach something from a position of power even when you are in weakness. High school drop out who carried ice buckets, restarted the hot dog machine and took out the trash at 7-11 dreaming about a 6 figure job? Resume says, "Uniquely educated thermal engineer with experience in troubleshooting advanced machinery and waste management considering a new career path and oppertunity of a lifetime for employer if specific salary requirements can be met." It's all about presenting yourself as a confident businessman in a suit with a grand proposal even when you are nothing but a beggar. So this beggar who desperately needs China's help, decides to tell China what we "must" do. It doesn't work in Asian culture, which is too intelligent to fall for such a poor trick and strongly believes in soft-spoken diplomacy. If you need China's help (not help with a genocide, of course but with something reasonable), you come with humility and you request humbly. You flatter your audience and make yourself poor so that you may earn his sympathy. The current approach only draws derision and laughter in China, a mentally ill beggar demanding food in the king's court telling the King that he "must" be fed for national security or some other funny reason.