Actually, the US has been overplaying its hand since withdrawing from the INF, but was, and remains, too impressed by the appearance of its own strength to appreciate it.
The foundational strength of Russia is she can destroy the US and, as a great power, has nothing to lose.
When confronted by a power reaching for a goal for truly existential reasons, you should either be prepared to kill him, or you stay out of his way. US can’t kill Russia without being killed. And the US, as a great power has too much to lose. But the US was not smart enough to stay out of the way, and it may be dawning on the US That might be wise to not resist too hard to being shoved out of the way.